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Well
I don't. At least not yet.
However,
my assistant, Yolanda Rivero, who is one of the most capable and
caring people I know, certainly does.
Please
feel free to utilize us for bilingual families or parties when one
or more persons may not be fluent in English. Although worth her
weight in gold to me, we will not charge extra for Yolanda's assistance.
WHAT
IS MEDIATION?
Legal mediation is a safe, sane, people-friendly process whereby
two or more parties involved in a dispute create solutions satisfactory
to everyone.
WHAT IS A MEDIATOR?
A legal mediator is an impartial individual experienced in conflict
resolution. Her job is to help the participants identify the core
issues, facilitate communication, create options mutually agreeable
to all. The mediator decides nothing. She is there as a catalyst,
confidante, and counselor to all.
WHO USES MEDIATION?
Any dispute qualifies for legal mediation. Mediation is especially
helpful when the issues are complex, carry "emotional baggage,"
or involve ongoing relationships such as family members who will
continue to interact throughout their lives.
WHY USE MEDIATION?
Mediation allows the parties to maintain complete control of the
crucial decisions that affect them, rather than handing their futures
over to opposing attorneys, judges, or arbitrators. Solutions meet
the participants' basic needs and sense of fairness. Both parties'
legal interests and rights are respected and protected. As an added
bonus, participants often learn conflict resolution methods they
can use in other areas of their lives. Mediation is very personal
and private. It is far less expensive than either litigation or
arbitration. Mediation is about WIN/WIN/WIN. Period.
WHAT IS MEDIATION NOT?
Not about guilt or innocence. Not about legal jargon. Not about
who started it. Not about the past as much as "where do we
go from here" to create a future we can all live with and even
feel proud of.
HOW LONG DOES MEDIATION TAKE?
Many disputes are solved in a single session, a few hours long.
More complex issues, of course, take longer. All parties participate
in each session. The goal of everyone concerned is to resolve the
dispute as painlessly and elegantly as possible. No one's goal is
to rack up billable hours.
HOW MUCH DOES MEDIATION COST?
This cost is typically shared by the participants. In cases of financial
hardship, a sliding scale is available. We all want to solve the
same problems.
WHY DO I DO MEDIATION?
I love being a lawyer because I get to help other people with important,
sometimes overwhelming, problems. As a bonus, I get paid for it.
Helping others is the best part of my job, and those who know me
will tell you I repeat my thanks for it every day. Legal mediation
is about people, their hearts, and the hearts of their problems.
Mediation does not fan the flames of resentment or bitterness. Its
sole goal is to resolve conflict and put sorrow to rest. Working
closely with others towards a common goal is wonderful way to live
a life. A difficult and successful mediation makes my day, my whole
week -- then all of us get to sleep better at night.
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